3 Essential Things You’re Lacking Causing You To FAIL With Women – With Examples

3-Essential-Things-You’re-Lacking-Causing-You-To-FAIL-With-Women-–-With-ExamplesIf you’re a somewhat of decent guy but for some reason are always wondering why women don’t find you attractive, then it’s not your fault. The problem is, like most things that actually matter in life, dating and seduction isn’t a subject that’s taught in schools.

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What’s worse is that, when a guy openly admits that he is clueless about this topic, he’ll be looked down upon as if he was a pedophile caught spying with his pants down on the children in the playground.

So What’s The Result?

An entire generation of guys who no longer know what it takes in order to really attract women like a real man. Instead, we’re force fed bullshit advice from Hollywood romance movies which if followed gets you as far as attempting to win the X Factor with Ashlee Simpson’s singing skills.

But you know what? Since you have taken the first step in realizing that you have a problem in this area of life, we’re not going to judge you, but instead we’re going to applaud your efforts and encourage you even more by letting you know the top three things that most guys don’t have, that causes them to fail with women.

1. Most Guys Don’t Work On Themselves Enough

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Because of the sad fact that guys get their seduction training from modern day media, they seem to think that “just being themselves” is good enough to get them anywhere with the ladies. If you are dumb enough to fall for this cliché line, then let me tell you something buddy.

Have you gotten laid yet by being yourself? If you have, I don’t think you’d be reading this article. That’s why you need to know the quality of advice you’re receiving. It’s utter bullshit.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying be someone else or pretend to be something you’re not. But what I am saying is that you need to be the best version of yourself.

Think of yourself as a plain vanilla gaming character is most games. Are you able to get past the first few rounds unless you upgrade and gain more experience? No! The entire point of the game is to level up and become the better and more powerful version of you.

workonyourselfThis guy needs to up his game

That’s the same with here. I guarantee that you have flaws that you’re not addressing that you easily could, and if you did, you’d see a massive increase in your success with women.

For example, maybe you have really bad body language. I’ve seen men who when spoken to by women, immediately act like they are being yelled at by their boss and lose all confidence.

Not all guys have this problem of course, but if there are glaring problems that you KNOW are there, and you’re just ignoring them because you’re “just being yourself” and you’re expecting to land grade A pussy. Then you’re fooling yourself.

2. Not Realizing That Looks And Money Isn’t Everything

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This one is a big one. A lot of men seem to think that they are failing with women because they don’t look like Brad Pitt and don’t have the bank balance of Warren Buffet.

The last time I checked, there are more than 6 billion people in this world. Half of them are women. Are you telling me that 50% of the adult male population that’s old enough to breed was blessed with Greek God good looks and Rockefeller riches? Or are you just trying to blame something that you perceive to be beyond your control to justify why you’re not succeeding with women?

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Now, having money and looks isn’t going to harm you, but if you think that it’s the ONLY thing that’ll get you a girlfriend, then you’re surely mistaken. Having those things simply gives you more of an opportunity to be able to attract them. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Take for example, I have spoken to so many hot women who said “oh I was interested in a cute/rich guy, but as soon as he opened his mouth, I couldn’t wait for him to leave”.

You see, unlike us men, who will willingly jump into bed with someone based on their looks, women are not like that. Instead, they care much more about what kind of person you are and whether or not you have a unique one of a kind personality that no amount of money can replace.

3. Not Realizing That Their Mindset Is The Main Reason Why They Are Failing

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Did you know that the way you think plays a vital role, and determines the outcome of an interaction before it begins?

Yes, your self talk and the way you talk to yourself really matters.

Our subconscious mind does exactly what you what you command it to do. If you think “oh this is easy” then guess what? Your action that follows will be natural and easy, such as when you talk to other men. That’s no big deal.

But what I see a lot of guys do, which makes it harder for them (and I must admit, I STILL fall for this trap myself) is to paint a picture of failure or difficulty before I even begin my actions in my own mind.

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For instance, if I see an attractive woman, I might think to myself “oh she’s probably going to be a bitch and really mean to me”. Chances are, if I did that, I would have told my subconscious “hey dude, you’re going to be fucking shut down” before I even begun talking to her. So in the unlikely even that I did muster up the courage to talk to her, I would be displaying all the wrong body language cues and probably act all awkward and shit.

Guess what? I set myself up for failure because I told myself that it was going to be really hard. My subconscious simply agreed with my negative self-talk and did as it was commanded. It prepared me to get rejected before I even started, thus making the interaction forced and unnatural.


So there you have it guys. These are 3 killer mistakes that cause most men to fail when it comes to dating and attracting women. Make sure you don’t make these mistakes. I know it’s going to be hard, but at least you know they exist so you can avoid them right?

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