5 Mistakes Guys Do To Cock Block Themselves – Part 2

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3. Your Facebook Profile Is Killing You

  fbprofile1Is this the female version of you?

It seems like one of those things that almost cannibalizes any chance you will have of speaking to a woman.  It may not seem like that big of a deal but everything you have on your Facebook can help you and harm you at the same time.

More and more, people are meeting each other through online means.  Which means that the approaching women this way can be quite trickier.  Take this for instance, if a woman hasn’t messaged you in a great deal of time after you two seemed to be talking quite well with each other; it may not be because of some internet outage.

Take stock of your Facebook profile and see if there’s anything that may have offended the woman.  Find the drunken party pictures of you and your friends and hide them deep in a hole.  You may have screwed yourself out of talking to this particular woman, but you’ll for certain be better prepared for the next one.

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If a woman does suddenly stop talking to you, stop sending her messages.  If not, you’ll be known as that creepy stalker guy.  You think approaching woman was harder before?  Just wait till that one makes the rounds.

So try to treat your Facebook or dating profile the same way Hollywood treats a PG-13 movie.  Have a little bit of natural edginess and try to stay away from blatant displays of vulgarity.  Keep the dirty jokes to a minimum.  After all that’s what private messaging is for with your friends.  So you can say the things that you would like to say when it wouldn’t bother anybody.

4. You’ve Made No Effort To Improve Yourself

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One of the reasons that you may have trouble approaching women is staring right at you every time you look in the mirror and you may not even realize it.  Life is a continuous series of making small tweaks and changes to ourselves so when we get old we at the very least have some interesting stories to tell.

More and more due to social media people are connecting and reconnecting with people from earlier moments in our lives.  Maybe today, you think that you’ve built up enough confidence to approach that girl that you thought was unapproachable in high school or college or that you used to work with.

Now hold on a second.  Take a good look at yourself, not just your reflection; but everything.  In what ways have you attempted to make yourself a better version of yourself than the person may have known you as before.

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If you thought way back then that the girl wouldn’t be caught dead with you because you were what could be generously considered as scraggly or an unread type of person, she probably didn’t start falling in love at the drop of a hat with people that look like transients.

If you’re having trouble approaching women, it stands to reason that perhaps you’ve made no effort to improve yourself and you can sense the death glare from a woman that instantly indicates that she hopes beyond hope you don’t actually come up to her and try to start talking.  This isn’t saying that you have to suddenly overhaul who you are in every way; just make some minor improvements to yourself.

If you’re having trouble making first contact with a woman because you feel that something about you physically may be a hindrance; then going out and spending a few bucks on a haircut might be a big help.

If this girl sees you a couple of weeks in a row at a place and notices a change about you, it might be easier to approach due to the fact that she actually approached you because she saw that you did something different.  Any improvement, no matter how big or small will always work out in the end.  Even if you go to pick the woman up after a few dates and the only sign of improvement she sees is you’ve got an application to a community college on your dashboard; it’s a hell of a lot better than nothing.

5. You Live On Past Accomplishments

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This one more directly applies to that segment of the male population that made the mistake of never getting out of the town they grew up in.  If you stay somewhere long enough you will eventually grow stale and your skills will become rusty when it comes to dating.  It will become harder for you to touch base with a woman, especially in public situations because you haven’t allowed yourself to get out of your comfort zone.

Former athletes tend to suffer from this the most.  If you won some contest or were a big sports star in high school, you may think for a while that this is going to get you a free pass when it comes to women because in your heart you believe the battle is half won.

In your mind you walk freely up to the girl you desire and think she will fall head over heels for the big football star.  Hate to tell you this, but if you aren’t getting paid for it you aren’t that big of a star.  High school accolades only work for about a year or even less after getting out of high school, a little bit longer with college.

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If you’re one of those fellows that seems to find that finding a girl at the club that’s worth talking to is getting a bit harder to find, it’s because everyone else has moved on and you are living on borrowed time and past glory.  Just like your mother may have told you when you were young and getting teased, people will simply not care about what you did in the past.  They just want to know what you are doing now and in the future.

So be known for something now, don’t be known as the guy that doesn’t have anything on his plate right now.  Your inability to approach women may not have anything to do with you.  As I may have said, it has more to do with the women becoming scarce because they are all with guys that at least have something going on.

So don’t live on past glory and for god’s sake don’t mention something big you did in high school if you do manage to score a first conversation with a woman.  They will look at that as a sign of immaturity.  Don’t bust out the number of touchdowns you scored until you’re well into a relationship.

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Conclusion

The whole point is, when it comes to a man’s difficulty approaching women; most of the time the problem is internal.  It’s something we’re doing and despite as much as we’d like to, we can’t blame the women.  It’s us, and it’s something that unfortunately has to be accepted.  But using some common sense and good strategy, approaching women can be as easy as pie.

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